One thing I wanted to let everyone know is that we are still really early on in the pregnancy, between 3 and 6 weeks.   We decided a while ago that if we got pregnant, we weren’t going to wait until the usually 12 weeks.  We have had some good friends go through some rough times and have lost their babies and we know that is why many people don’t tell right away, which is very cool.   We just felt like even if something happened (God forbid) we’d still want our friends and family to know.  We still want people to be a part of our lives whether it’s full of  joy or sorrow.  Our friends have allowed us to see their struggles and their vulnerability and I really appreciate that.  We are family after all.